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Just asking favorsThis forum post has messages dated from 07/10/11 through 09/16/11, please be sure to read all the messages. If you feel it is old or outdated, please follow up with a question or comment and someone may be able to update it, or reply with newer information if you have it. - Frustrated
| Just asking favors I both hate and frustrated showing interest in you just to find out later that they are just going to ask for a favor in the end. I recently had a chat with this high school friend who I don't have the luxury to usually talk with, so it came to a bit surprise for her to show an enthusiasm to chat with me over at Facebook. Little did I know that it is just an excuse for her to start ask me a favor, to edit her personal profile.I really hate these sort of attitude towards me. I feel more miserable and unappreciated when people do this to me. So you'll just remember me and I exist when you need me? Well I hate you for doing that. Well, this is probably temporary but this won't happen again. |
| "A Favor From A Friend "
Well you probably is having a hard time dealing with your feelings over that friend of yours. But well, since she is your friend, you can just think of that as a simple favor for a her. You can say no if you want but for now, try to spare her with that favor. And if she tries to ask for some favor from you in that same manner, then you can turn her down. |
| ""User-Friendly""
Me and my officemates have a term to go along with these kinds of people... "user-friendly". They are the people who just remember you because they have something to ask from you. I have a couple of this in my network as well and let's just say I have learned to manage their user-friendliness. A simple refusal will do. Don't make it worst by confronting them as they might not know that you ave found about what they are. If you are one, then here is a word of advice, change. If you are going to ask people for favors, make sure you have good communication with that person. If you will ask for a favor from someone you don't usually talk to then at least try to establish good relationship and communication with them first before being comfortable asking them favors. |
| "Scared Of Asking Favors Now "
This really makes me scared of asking favors from people I know. I never thought that people, or my friends would think that way over me. I am the type of person who would less likely communicate for I have so many things to do and I find comfort of being alone and away from crowds. But when I do want to talk, I would just beep some of my friends over social networking sites hoping for a short chat with them. What if I ask for a favor from a friend, and I fail to communicate with them for awhile, would that be rude? |
| "Too sensitive and over reacting"
You are being to sensitive and just plain over reacting over trivial things. You can just refuse right off the bat and go on with your merry ways, but no. You would rather go on hating an old acquaintance just for their bad habit. Everyone has this bad habit of asking favors sometimes. Have you even considered why did she ask you to help her out? Maybe she found your abilities way better than her. She did not do any grave sin for you to hate her so don't. |
| "My mistake"
Well that's just me and that's my issue. I have many issues really and I am not so proud of that. I continually am improving on my straightforward attitude. I confronted this friend as she noticed my gradual loss of interest after she asked me the favor. I gave her a piece of my mind and I think I offended her in the process. She told me that she won't be asking any favors again, which give me both a relief and worry. Now I messed up another relationship again. Oh well, there I go again... learning things the hard way. But hey, we weren't that social when we are on Facebook so it just goes back to how normally things were. |
| "Facebook Problems"
Facebook is really something huh? Oh well, we are also to be blamed for the social stress that we are experiencing now. No thanks to status updates or shout outs, you can voice out your regular rants which isn't always healthy. such rants are the ones that start it all. To whether your intention is for that person to realize what have they done, , or you are just thinking out loud, these kinds of actions and habit on social networking sites are the real culprit. So learn to stop or moderate how you update that status or even chat with the person. A simple "NO" would do, but you did the exact opposite. |
| "A clash of ideals"
This is why I have limit myself from answering such war-mongering tactics of some people in my network. Rather than just letting them get to me, I just tell myself to let it go. An update to this friend of mine, I regularly see her online but now she no longer engages conversations with me, not unless I start it. She might still be pissed off at me for being too frank with her, but hey no more favors right? |
| "Not really"
Yeah she is no longer asking for favors, but she has also decided to no longer cut any ties with you. sometimes, it is better to keep things to yourself. Don't let emotions bring the worst of you. One's assumption and emotions can sometimes betray you and when everything has been said and done, you'll eventually regret everything that transpired when you were "that" emotional. Hope you also learned from that experience. |
| "People Starting To Get To Your Nerves "
We learn from our own mistakes, and so, there is beauty in the most stupid things that we do. And regarding those people who just recognize and remembers you during the times that they need something from you, just try to understand. And be thankful too, for you now know whose who from your list of friends. Extending help, there is nothing wrong in doing this. But for me, when people does make it a habit to get to your nerves, then the problem sure arises. |
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