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Letting things slideThis forum post has messages dated from 05/31/11 through 08/15/11, please be sure to read all the messages. If you feel it is old or outdated, please follow up with a question or comment and someone may be able to update it, or reply with newer information if you have it. - Frustrated
| Letting things slide I recently got into trouble with an old friend. It was a trivial matter that dragged all the way to the brink of us losing our friendship. Luckily both parties learned to give way for one another. Both aren't to be blamed for what happen, at least that is what i have come to conclusion. I have already stopped what /i usually do and let them be, but it seems like she haven't changed one bit. So before things go out of hand again, I have decided to let things slide. I am already tired of all the speculation, and don't want to go into another mess. What I told her before was final. I won't meddle and post anything that concerns her in my social networking wall or my work, well except this one to make her realized that I am done with all those things. So for future antics that she'll post, guess will all let that slide. To people out there. When you already came to a resolution and agreement to avoid future conflicts, you should stay to those words. If you see that the person you made a pact with break it, then let it be. You'll feel good that you are the one who holds to your promise and they are the ones who won't. You'll have a better peace of mind than them. |
| "Let Her Be With Her ILL Attitude "
It is a shame to that friend of yours to act that way. But well, not all are capable of upholding their promises and their words. And I congratulate you for deciding not to respond at her malicious antics. She does not deserve your time anyway. Let her with all of her speculations. If she can't help but to post nonsense then just let her be. We surely have to stand for whatever agreement or resolution we had. Specially when it concerns friends and people close to us. |
| "A mature way of dealing with stuff"
I commend you for doing so. You are not just doing yourself a favor but your friend as well. Don't look for trouble by being bother with what people has to say about you. People are entitled to their own opinion, yours included. But it doesn't always have to end in an argument, to forcing one's will to another. If it gives you stress, then I suggest you find better things to do than looking for trouble. |
| "Admit Your Faults And Learn From Those "
The very best thing that we can do to save ourselves from future troubles is to try to watch what we say and what we do. For our words are equally or far more damaging to what we can do. There surely be those times when we do offend or hurt other people. But for me, as long as we do admit our faults to ourselves and try to learn from those mistakes then we are to have a much better lives. |
| "Pick your fights"
Learn to pick your fights. Sometimes you have to stand for what you believe in but sometimes it is better to just stay quiet specially if things aren't really going anywhere. I think you have learned something from your experience and that alone is good enough. You made a resolution and I think it is working forking for you, I just picture yourself not talking to that person of whom you refer to because of coming to such resolution. Because if I made the same resolution having similar discussions with the same person you came to dispute with will be pretty awkward. |
| "The Reality of Life"
Here is what I can share with all of you folks. Never ever show who you really are to people. You see, there are those who might get you wrong in anyway and so, just be sure that you are that close and you have that strong bond with a person before you show who you really are. Surely, some would have violent reactions on what I say here. But well, that is reality all of us have to face, and accept. |
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