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Life is out there to get you one way or anotherThis forum post has messages dated from 05/30/11 through 07/28/11, please be sure to read all the messages. If you feel it is old or outdated, please follow up with a question or comment and someone may be able to update it, or reply with newer information if you have it. - Frustrated
| Life is out there to get you one way or another I woke up today feeling oh so neutral. I know that these kinds of morning can bring only two possible outcome, depression or sheer happiness. Eventually it was tipped off on the side of depression when a friend eventually called me up to apologize for the thing he did to me. I know that it should settle things but eventually it made me think back of the wrong things he did. I don't want to hate him by keeping my emotions bottled up but I eventually said it is okay. After the conversation I felt depressed.Even if you don't want to be depressed, life plays a trick on you and in the end you will still refrehed. You don't want to be sick but one way or another you'll get sick. We can't stop the inevitable, we can just delay it. |
| "Dealing With Life's Depressing Moments "
That is true Larry, we cannot prevent things to ever happen if they are bound to happen. But well, things would be fine once you find it to yourself how to let go of the past and to try to accept what is going on with your life, positively. If you do not mind me asking, what was it that your fried did to you that made you feel depressed? |
| "He betrayed my trust"
Don't worry it has nothing to do with you, Hahaha of course! I don't even know you. Joking aside, this event recently happen a few days ago with ANOTHER friend I have. It has something to do with a friend I know from way back when, and a more sensitive matter. He did something that I felt betrayed. He was the one who first engage the conversation because I have decided to no longer talk to him after realizing what he did to me, to cool things off. Eventually he told me that he was guilty seeing me always online but not talking to him. So he sincerely apologize to get that guilty feeling of his chest according to him. I guess I had a bad morning that day, his mistake was not grave but my day was kinda ruin because his apologies and him talking to me, made me recall what he did to me. After that conversation I told him that all is settled so he shouldn't be bothered by it. |
| "Nothing beats having peace of mind, right? "
Hi there Larry. I think it is time for you to move on. After all, it has been a while since that incident that you are talking about here. And your friend already asked for forgiveness. I think both of you would benefit if you would forgive him wholeheartedly and try to forget about those bad feelings you had for him, for what he had done to you. Nothing beats having peace of mind, right? |
| "Forgiveness shouldn't be rushed"
If you felt he betrayed you then why pretend to say that you forgive him when it obviously looks like you haven't. The mere thought that you feel bad after talking to him means that deep in your heart you know that you still didn't forgave him. If I were you, you shouldn't just mind him when he messaged you up. I don't want to fool myself and be a pretentious jerk who claims to forgive people when obviously I am not. Give yourself time to heal first and when things have eased out then forgive them wholeheartedly. |
| "Find Forgiveness in your Heart "
That is true, if you are not that ready on forgiving your friend, then just don't give him your forgiveness. I believe that time heals all wounds. And so, let time heal all of the wound inside you. Your friend needs your forgiveness, and giving it wholeheartedly and truthfully is very important. Like you, he was also hurting, I can say because he talked to you trying to ask for forgiveness. |
| "Making peace with myself"
An update on this friend. I think I made peace with myself and with him as I am now back to being my jolly old self with him again. I think our relationship got better. I might have over reacted when I posted this annoyance here for his betrayal isn't that grave. I am just laughing about this post now. Glad that everything go settled in the end. Friendship still push through. |
| "Friends Are Our True Treasure "
Good thing that you and your friend finally settled things right. You see, it is so hard really to actually be mad at people, especially with friends. If I am with a misunderstanding with people, I make sure that I settle things with them. We just have to admit our mistakes and learn to move on. Happy for you and your friend. Hope you'll find it to yourself to finally learn to treasure them. For our friends are our real and genuine wealth. |
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