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My elder brother is acting high and mightyThis forum post has messages dated from 11/08/10 through 06/26/11, please be sure to read all the messages. If you feel it is old or outdated, please follow up with a question or comment and someone may be able to update it, or reply with newer information if you have it. - In a Snit
| My elder brother is acting high and mightyI am just extremely annoyed on how my brother is acting these past few weeks. He usually meddle with my personal affairs like eavesdropping on my phone call, reading my personal notes, and rummaging through my stuff.I confronted him last Sunday and what I get was a wise cracking answer that he was just concern for me. You I was a brat back in the days, let's say that I was too friendly with the boys, but that is all in the past now as I am so much in love with my current partner. I warned him never to touched my stuff again and luckily he complied. |
|  "Respect For Privacy "
I have the same problem with my brother as well. He would act very suspicious of what I am doing and would end up reading my letters, my notes and even hear out some of my phone conversations. I think it is important for each and everyone of us to respect each others' spaces. This way there would be nothing to fight about and conflicts would be minimize. What do you think? |
| "They probably are just concerned"
They are probably concerned or they are just total pricks messing with your stuff. Try to give them the benefit of doubt. You should know your brother better than anyone else. You mentioned that you were a brat once and he might probably think that you still are. Have you showed him that you can now be trusted? I know it isn't necessary but you might have to for him to stop his speculations about you. |
| "Proving Yourself To People, Not All The Time "
We do not have to prove ourselves to anyone at all times. Once is enough. But for the rest of your life? Come on, there are still lots of people worth your time and effort. Even if your brother does not trust you enough, he still do not have the right to meddle on your personal stuffs and engagements. Your brother must know that. I myself hates my stuffs being meddled upon, just like you and everybody else. |
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