When you get infuriated, who gets infuriated? is it a real question or just a snide comment? No, it IS a real question.Look at it this way. "WE" are many things, things in our heads.
Thorough our lives we build an "I", a self, and feed it its substance daily. Like a plant, we nourish it and give it an existence.
It becomes a part of us, no, it comes US. Our real "I" ceases to exist, and we continue as this other I that we have constructed.
It dominates us, leads us, builds opinions, likes, dislikes, loves and hates. And we follow along and play the game.
So when we get angry, no furious, infuriated with something or someone. All we have to do to undo the spell is to "see" the game and step back away from it.
All of a sudden, we will be realeased and all the fury will fade away.