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Don't blame us for your bad dayThis forum post has messages dated from 05/31/11 through 10/15/11, please be sure to read all the messages. If you feel it is old or outdated, please follow up with a question or comment and someone may be able to update it, or reply with newer information if you have it. - Irritated
| Don't blame us for your bad day I am just ticked off about my brother's usual routine and attitude. He usually has this tendency to wake up at the wrong side of the bed which is pretty normal if you ask me. The problem is that he starts acting like a jerk, raising his voice, whining on every little tad bit that simply touch him. He kicks and starts throwing stuff around if things doesn't go his way associated with his bad mood. It seems like he is dispersing this negative aura in the house that then makes us feel irritated, now there are two irritated people in the house. |
| "As much as possible avoid it "
Everyone can wake up at the wrong side of the bed and I can say that I am guilty of that as well. Sometimes I just get off the bed so irritated, then when I go to have a coffee, I don't see any glass to put my coffee into, all of the glasses are in the dishes! Then I started complaining. Later when things cooled down, I realized that I can just wash the dishes and stop being a jerk. So after that, I make it to a point to stop being a burden to others. So do you, let us not spread our bad day to others. |
| "Trying To Hold on To Feelings "
Larry was right, there will always be times when we are really that irritated for no reason at all. Later we will just realize that we are somehow acting stupid. And so it is important that we do try to control our temper. Most of the time we tend to just burst out all of those emotions not thinking of the consequences. And so, just try to control all of those feelings. |
| "People are asking to be smack in the face"
It is really not helping to control your temper specially if the current situation doesn't allow you to. What I mean is when you are like me, woke up at the wrong side of the bed, then you go to work online to find irritating co-workers just adding up to your bad mood. I usually keep it to myself but once I get started it is really hard to take it off. But there are rare occasions that I smack people with my bad mood if they really deserve it. |
| "Irritation For Co Workers and Bad Temper "
All of us are mere human beings. And most of the time emotions overrules our mind. And because of that, we tend to get ourselves into trouble, for some reasons and for no reasons at all. And most of the time we tend to have fights with people just because of our bad mood. No one deserves maltreatment from anyone for whatever reasons. And we realize things after the harm has been done. Irritating they may seem, but how about us, have we checked on ourselves if we are not irritating as well? |
| "A piece of my mind"
I too also have a brother who can be like this sometimes and although I let him be sometimes, I sometimes get irritated myself with all this complaining and banging sounds. I usually tell him in a much calmer voice to ask for help if he needs it or to stop that sound and if he insisted on doing so, then all hell probably breaks loose as I start on scolding him. I already gave him a warning or extended my help and if he still won't stop the irritating thing that he is doing then it is scolding time. |
| "Try having a much cooler head"
A friend told me once to have a cooler head when dealing with such people as returning the favor to these kinds of people would create one deadly mix of chaos. It may seems uncontrollable sometimes, but believe me it is manageable. Try taking deep breathes and clear your mind if ever you woke up from the wrong side of the bed. With dealing with these kinds of people, it also doesn't help if you let them get into your nerves, in the end you might end up in an argument if you do so. The solution is trying to have a cooler head. |
| "Make Things A Little Lighter"
We are all prone to getting really annoyed and irritated. But we can somehow try to make things a little lighter. Just try to focus on some other things than getting yourself pre occupied with such kind of thoughts and feelings all inside you.You surely have to make things more lighter. No matter how hard it may seem, things will be fine in the end. And those conflicts will surely be fine and over in the end. |
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