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Irritating former classmate This forum post has messages dated from 07/11/11 through 10/24/11, please be sure to read all the messages. If you feel it is old or outdated, please follow up with a question or comment and someone may be able to update it, or reply with newer information if you have it. - Irritated
| Irritating former classmate  I am joined by a friend in an online chat with some other guys. Everything were doing great when suddenly this certain guy came in the scene. He claims that he did not know my husband right there as I read his posts. All of us are aware that they were classmates before and it irritates the h**l out of me. My husband knows him very well and there he was expressing how hard it is for him to recognize my husband. |
| "Poor Memory "
We cannot expect people to remember our names and faces all of the time. Surely, I would feel the same way once I encounter such people. Being too insensitive to actually deny you face to face. But if he forgets about your husband then just so be it. If you are not that close to him then why bother at all, right? Just try to keep your composure and try to lengthen your patience my dear. |
| "Poor memory or another reason"
The human memory can sometimes betray us. We can't always recall everything instantly. I recently attended a little gathering of elementary friends and there is this one girl who I can't recall at all but she knows me completely back then. I admitted and apologize for my poor memory of her but that didn't hinder me to get to know her now as the grownups that we are. People forget things, myself included. If hat person didn't do something too memorable or din't became a friends then I can be like this former classmate of your husband. Let me ask you this. Can you completely know and describe every classmate you had in your grade school years? You answer will justify his excuse for probably not remembering your husband's name. Don't take it personally just blame the unreliable memory not the person. |
| "The Reason Why... "
You were right, I also have little memories as to those classmates of mine way back in grade school and even in high school days. And I understand that this former classmate of my husband could have just forgotten him, for some reasons that I do not know. But knowing that he knows my husband's friends, four of them. And he said that he was friends with those four, but my husband, I think that is a little irritating. I am not mad at him, just irritated with his attitude. |
| "A recent talk"
I had he chance to talk with a former grade school classmate who wanted to hang around with us. His scenario is just like what happened to you. He forgotten this one particular friend of ours when I asked him why, I found out that he was only our classmate on the fifth grade and transferred to anther school after that year. His father also died that time, so I believe there are a lot of things that happened to him that time. That plus, some issues with remembering people.What I did was tell what I still remember about this forgotten classmate which he later did remember. I think the memory of this friend of ours got buried with all the nice and tragic memories he had. But you can't be blamed for being mad or irritated. |
| "Moving On"
I feel for you Hanna. For so many instances that I tried to communicate with former classmates and even close friends way back in my schooling years. And guess what, most of them did not respond back and would ask my name denying me as their friend, or just knowing me. And it frustrates me a lot. But life is always like that. We have to adjust for we do not want to hurt ourselves in the process. |
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