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Questions: Should i divorce him? - Mad
| Questions: Should i divorce him? We have been married for 1 year and together almost 6, off and on. we have 3 kids. our 4 and 5 yr old does not like for him to do anything for him, because he really never has tried, but now that he does try i think its to late. when the boys want to play with him or do something with him outside wise or even inside, he normally says no hes tired. he gets mad at me for stupid things, and gets mad at the boys just because, he raises his voice and it scares them. he is mean to my family, but once i say soemthing about it he appoligizes and is nice for a few days than goes back to normal, i always tell myself im going to leave, but then i say next time, because maybe he will change. i have a gut feeling he may be cheating on me at work, but i have no proof at all. he gets very annoyed really easy. i dont know what to do or how to change any of it. |
| You know what, your husband must have some issues in life and if you can, you can try to reach out to him and talk things out with him, it is not good to think that he is cheating, trust him because he is your husband. If talking to him heart to heart would not work then maybe you both could live separately for a while. This way he might realize his faults. |
| In the first place, why did you think of going into a relationship when the attitude of each other would result to misunderstanding and family problems? There are things to consider in going or not going to choose divorce, but that does not mean that everything is made to make the relationship work, including compromising what the other party feels. It is better if the kids grow up in a broken but peaceful family than a complete but unfixed one. |
| Nowadays the divorce rates are reaching sky high; family issues; issues with your husband or wife ; the only solution which people seek is divorce. People don't act mad and frustrated without any reason; and its not necessary that he is cheating on you; if he had he would have though divorce first. There might be some issues which you are unaware of and may be its getting out of his hand to keep himself calm.Why not talk it out get everything out in light; may be there might be a solution. |
| "The Reason Behind Divorce"
The reason why more and more couples are ending into divorce is because they are not good to be together. This is the reason why it is important that we do try to know our partner well first before we decide to tie the knot with them. Because if you just jump into decisions, you might end up regretting them for the rest of your lives. Get to know a person more and deep, before anything else. |
| "Spending time with your husband"
Have you ever sit down and talked with him for a good amount of time? Have you tried listening to what is happening to him? Guys can really be silent sometimes, open up your worries and tell him these things that bothers you. Do not accuse him of cheating yet, nor open up discussions about divorce, just tell him about your frustrations about him. Tell him about his inconsistencies. Talk and listen. |
| "Issues in Relationships "
There will always be issues within any marriage. And most of the times, troubled hearts tend to find refuge away from each other. But what will happen next? What will happen to the kids, if there are? We need to consider reasons before we jump into any decisions. Talking things out would surely help you out in deciding things and clearing up any misunderstandings between you and your partner. Relationships sure deserve chances. |
| "Talk it out"
I think there is still something to work out in your relationship. Since you mention he still manage to apologize when you point out his mistakes. Try to even rub it in and express the gravity of the situation that it could potentially ruin your family. Don't go with wild speculations first. Seek out marriage counseling first before you jump to divorce because of what people in the forum tells you to do. |
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