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Why Bother? This forum post has messages dated from 03/25/11 through 08/04/11, please be sure to read all the messages. If you feel it is old or outdated, please follow up with a question or comment and someone may be able to update it, or reply with newer information if you have it. - Mad
| Why Bother?  I am really mad about myself right now. Why would I always let myself bothered on those people who thinks bad and ill about me when I have a circle of people who trust me and knows me better than anybody else. My husband keep on telling me that I should not make those people make me feel down and low. And now I decided to stop, stop feeling sorry for myself because of those people. |
| "Happy For You "
That is good to hear Hanna. I am happy for you. It is not easy to take it all up but still you are lucky to have some people around you who understands you well and knows the real you inside and out. I hope that you are now fine with what is going on with your life. It is not good to keep mind pre occupied with those thoughts. |
| "Be happy"
That is true. You should not let yourself down because of those people. And besides, as what you had said, you have yourself some good group of supportive people around you. Do not let yourself down with those people who does nothing but to make you feel bad. Go on with your life. Have fun and make the best out of everything. There will always be those kinds of people that you will meet, so better just make yourself acquainted to that feeling and let them all just pass. |
| "Coming in good terms with yourself"
We always seek other people's approval and we can't be blamed for that. Society has made us this way. This is probably one of the hardest thing to overcome as adults. Once you've come in good terms with yourself and learn to accept things as they are then, you can finally congratulate yourself for a job well done. It takes maturity to outgrew that inner child seeking approval from people. |
| "Starting To Be Free From Ill Feelings "
That is true. I do learned that the hard way. And thanks for those people who I thought to be my enemies, they made me who I am now. They made me more stronger and they do helped me realize who the real me is. I used to have lots of annoying thoughts in my head. But situations now are far more different than before. I can say that I am starting to learn how to let go of ill feelings I have inside me. |
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