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Is it normal to feel anger at mother?This forum post has messages dated from 09/09/10 through 05/29/11, please be sure to read all the messages. If you feel it is old or outdated, please follow up with a question or comment and someone may be able to update it, or reply with newer information if you have it. - Mildly Annoyed
| Is it normal to feel anger at mother? I have a mother who can be hard to talk to. She can go on and on about things for a long times. Sometimes she will mention incidents that happened years ago. If you disagree with her even mildly she become overpowering. She would never bring things out into the open instead going on and on about things. But she would also spoil and would always stand up for me even too much at times. I grew up with a lot of problems. I can't figure if she neglected me or spoiled me. Am I wrong to be annoyed with her? |
| "We Must Respect And Look After Our Parents "
It is not healthy to feel bad about your parents, both of them. No matter how hard the situation maybe you have to always keep in mind that they are your parents. You are not here if it wasn't for them they raised you, they provide everything that you need. You have to always keep that in mine. Love your parents and understand them, the way they did when we are still little and unable to do things on our own. |
| You're not wrong to be annoyed with her. My own mother was similar and I've seen other cases where your problem is common. The underlying issue is that the parent is trying to make up for poor choices earlier in their life. They dwell within the parent and while that anger is stewing, it takes the form of what you see. If you can't talk to her and you are in a position to separate yourself from her for a bit (i.e. stay with grandparents) then that might be a solution. If you can't separate from her then you might try having it out with her...but don't expect the conversation to be pleasant. |
| "It is normal BUT"
It is quite normal really, but that doesn't mean you'll show disrespect to her. Try to not to engage and have a conflict with your own mother. Just let it all slide and don't be bothered too much about her opinion. You'll only be making things worse when you argue back or start a fight with her. Everyone is not perfect, even our parents. If we know better, then we should do better. |
| "What IF? "
Sure we have to really show respect to our parents no matter what. But the thing is, there are those parents who would do bad at you. I just watched a while ago in a local news how a parent grabs, punch and hurt her own son!Luckily, I have good parents and I have nothing to say about them. And so far things are doing well between me and them. |
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