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Irresponsibility MotherThis forum post has messages dated from 09/06/11 through 10/17/11, please be sure to read all the messages. If you feel it is old or outdated, please follow up with a question or comment and someone may be able to update it, or reply with newer information if you have it. - Mildly Irritated
| Irresponsibility Mother I usually don't mingle with the affairs of my elders, especially my relatives. But sometimes, I can't help but to react to what I overhear sometimes. I have this aunt who came back from the province after she decided to finally leave her cheating husband. The worst part about it is that she brought her youngest among her three children with her here in the Metro while the other remained with her husband. Why was it a bad idea? Because she is a neglectful mother.Another bad part is that she left without proper farewells. I don't know how would it affect her two elder children who are now in the fifth and fourth grade school. I think she wanted to get a new life but in exchange for her child's welfare. You see, she has a new "boyfriend" here in the city and now she is more neglectful towards the child she brought with her. She is now prioritizing her new partner over her youngest children. |
| "She Might Be Depressed "
Your aunt probably have problems that the people around her would never understand just yet. Maybe she had depression and that she felt comfort with that guy she currently have relationship with. Maybe she needs time to realize things. And as a woman and as a mother myself, I know she'd eventually come to her senses and realize her fault and her wrong doings towards her kids, that she left behind and had taken for granted. |
| "Hope someone slaps some sense to her"
Considering the situation of this aunt of yours, I also think that she is depress, but that doesn't mean that she'll neglect her child. The implications of her action shall haunt her on the years to come. Some possible scenarios would be that her two children living with their father might eventually be brainwashed by her husband's family to eventually hate her, or even if that family doesn't do so, the children might start to develop this form of neglect and ate towards her. Not to mention the child that she brought to he city. If she doesn't snaps out of her current delusion towards her new partner, I think that child might grow up to be a problem and rebellious child. |
| "Everybody Deserves Second Chance "
Most of the time we tend to just look at one side of the story when there are lots of reasons why people become themselves. Trauma, stress, depression and failure, some might get over with these mind blowing, sense loosing situation. But none are exempted to getting insane and loosing their senses completely. All of us needs and deserves a second chance. No matter how grave our sin might be. |
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