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People and their isues with criticismThis forum post has messages dated from 07/19/11 through 10/24/11, please be sure to read all the messages. If you feel it is old or outdated, please follow up with a question or comment and someone may be able to update it, or reply with newer information if you have it. - Mildly Irritated
| People and their isues with criticism I was having a talk with my mom yesterday about one of our tenants who is very messy and unsanitary about how she use the comfort room. It usually leaves the restroom with a very foul odor as they don't properly sanitize the toilet every after use. I told my mom to address this person about his sanitary issue. The next day, I noticed that this tenant started to shout at her children, being grumpy and all. This ticks me off a bit. If she isn't too comfortable of people telling her what to do, then she should a least be responsible of cleaning her surrounding for people not to remind her what she is about to do. |
| "You Have Done The Right Thing "
I would have done the same if I were in your position. We all want a clean house and environment to live at. And that tenant of yours really needs some words from the owner of the house. I am sure that she just got upset with the fact that she got confronted with how untidy she was with using the toilet. But that would soon pass and she'd eventually realize her fault. |
| "Criticism and Growing"
I know she was hurt but she must know the truth or she'll just keep doing what she think is normal. Now she is cleaning their comfort room and making amends for her unsanitary habits. We as adults seems to think that because we outgrew our childhood that there isn't nothing to change about us when in fact thee are still a lot to learn. Remember how we view our parents sometimes, that they are stubborn? Well guess what, we are becoming like that and will continually to be like that if we don't learn to accept criticism and grow as a wise person. |
| "Say It In A Nice Way As Possible "
Not all are good in accepting criticism, especially when it concerns their habits and personality. And it is important that criticism be done and executed in a way that you are not offending a person. There are lots of considerations that we should always remember. And besides, we do not want to be busted in our own game, right? Imagine if you are the one on her situation, what would you feel? No matter how true and good your intention is, you surely will have her offended. |
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