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| Questions: How to deal with mothers depression, how to get over regret, am i to  My mother is depressed, frequently being sick, she has been depressed for the last 10 years since my dad died, however the sickness has only been apparent for the past year or so. i have older siblings but they left home when my dad died as they are older but i lived with my mum from my early teens until 19. in this time, my mum turned to alcohol, i found this difficult to deal with as i suppose i was craving attention, as a result, i got angry with my mum and on occasions (wether she was drunk or not as she would go from 'normal' to depressed on a regular basis) i would get so angry at her and wanting her to snap out of it that i had pushed her over and being what i would describe as being evil and unsensitive and mildly abusive. i have now left home to go to university, i have been away for 4 years but now she has got worse. when i go home i find it difficult to see her in this state, though she tries to make it up to me by buying me things and paying off my debts though i ask her not to but she gets offended if i dont accept. i now feel considerably guilty for my behaviour in the past (though i still get very angry with her nfor being ill as she can be very reluctant at times to get help, resulting in me shouting at her) the trouble is, i now can understand how she is feeling, as i too suffer from depression of the same symptoms, though i get angry at her and tell her to sort herself out even though i know from experience that this is hard (i have seeked and am seeking help throgh counselling and the doctors). i regret so badly the way i have treated her as this didnt help and isnt helping her depression, i just dont know what to feel and how to deal with what i have done, she didnt and doesnt deserve what i have put her through and even though my siblings know of the problem, they are trying to help but they have their own families and think we should both stop holing onto the past and get on with life but that isnt the problem, myself and my 2 siblings who are now in their 30's( i am in my ea |
| You are not alone with that kind of problem. I have to say that there are times that I also felt the same way. My mind would always bug me about my guardian, my mom is not at home with us, she works overseas. So this guardian of mine. She is just after to what she is gonna get from my mom. She uses us to do that. I hope that this kind of treatment towards us and towards our mother stops. |
| "End It Right Away "
That is sad Anthony. You probably have a hard time dealing with those kind of people. It is not easy to live by yourself, away from the only parent that you have. I hope that things would turn right for you and to your mother. And you better make a move to make this thing stop. It is not right so do what is righteous my dear friend. Do not make yourself suffer. |
| "Seek professional help"
I suggest you both seek professionals help as you two are both psychologically burdened with the death of a loved one. You might be thinking that you are over your father's death but there might be something left plus the obvious fact that your mother is like that now. Try spending time with her. Rather than shouting at her, try to convince her to see a psychiatrist or psychologist. Both of you should attend the same session as it can give solution to both your emotional baggage. |
| "Things Happen For A Reason "
It is really saddening to hear such stories. Of families having such kind of problems. I just hope that things would be fine for you and for the whole family. Same goes to you Anthony. Hope that you finally get out of the situation you are in. God have plans for each of us. We just have to act accordingly to His will and I am sure things would be fine in the end. |
| I know how it feels to have a depressed mother because at an early age, I realized that life is not that easy. I really admire my mom for being so strong in facing all these challenges. Although sometimes she really feels like giving up, we are always there to support and understand her. With us on her side, she thinks that she can face everything no matter how hard the situation can be. |
| "A Depressed Mother "
I have a friend and her mother got really depressed because of her dad's death. It takes her mother years to regain sanity. I felt really bad for my friend and her siblings. Because they lived a life full of hatred and tears. It is so hard to have a mother all consumed with pain and depression. Things happen for a reason. And knowing that, we now have reasons for everything that is happening to us. |
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