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Tiger Mom Teaches Her CubThis forum post has messages dated from 07/26/11 through 10/24/11, please be sure to read all the messages. If you feel it is old or outdated, please follow up with a question or comment and someone may be able to update it, or reply with newer information if you have it. - Mildly Irritated
| Tiger Mom Teaches Her Cub In connection with my previous post about our tenant who has this hyperactive kid for an elder son (for she gave birth to an adorable girl recently), I continue this story now with her juggling her time doing house chores, taking care of the baby and teaching her son the basics of writing the alphabet. What irritates me a bit is how hard she scolds her child if the child makes a wrong stroke of how he writes the alphabet, from shouting to actually hitting (form of discipline here in Asia) the kid for not following orders. I can't help but to pity the kid again and be irritated at the mom for being noisy herself. Sheesh! Can't you scold your son without letting the whole block know how slow he catches up? How about giving him an incentive for learning? |
| "Mothers and Their Scolding Nature "
I can relate to what your tenant feels actually. You see, I work with my husband. At times like this, husbands and wives should work hand in hand to provide for the family. After working I have to do all of the household chores and at the same time guide my little girl with her studies. And sadly, and I must admit that I sometimes scold her for being too lazy with her homework and how slow she seems to be with some lessons, except math. But I feel terrible whenever I scold her for being too slow at times and my husband also gets mad at me whenever I do so. And so, I learned to be light and tries to slow down a bit with the lessons I felt like she's having a hard time learning. |
| "The tiger mom years"
The funny thing is that we joke around that in the house now. We usually overhear this tiger mom tenant of ours and my father usually say, that she is going overboard when she scolds and discipline her hyperactive child. I just argue back by saying, her being cruel for a tiger mom is nothing compared to mom back when she was raising us. My mom just smile and the rest of the family laughs on that thought.Well, she was indeed strict, but look at the product of that beating... I mean form of discipline hahaha |
| "Not really in favor of such way of raising kids"
Although you were raised by a tiger mom, that still isn't enough for me to recommend it. I believe that discipline is necessary to educate the children but that doesn't mean that we would physically hurt them if someday we become parents ourselves. Not all children are like you who grew up to become this "jolly" person (as you seem here in the forums). I have seen friends who rebelled and eventually hated their parents because of the trauma of such strict and tiger parents they have. |
| "Why Some Moms are Like That"
With all the duties and chores at home, we cannot blame some of the moms out there who finds it hard to deal with their stress and emotions and unintentionally ventilates their feelings with their kids, especially when there are too noisy and too naughty. But for me, it is just a matter of time budgeting to do the things that you need to do and have time for your kids as well. |
| "Don't get me wrong"
Don't get me wrong. I don't recommend being a tiger parent to your child. I am just saying my experience with my mom. Well, it wasn't really that happy especially when you are the one being disciplined, but somehow that instilled in me that bad actions will have its deserved punishment that it was justice. I wouldn't do that to my future sons or daughters but will have that same effect on them, that they shouldn't do such actions for they might get into serious trouble later. |
| "Tiger Parenting Will Never Be The Answer "
To grow up in a disciplinarian parents, I used to think that it is normal for kids like me to be scolded, shouted upon and be hit at times. And as I grew up, I realized to myself that I am not going to be the same parent as that of my very own parents. And it is great. Because somehow, I can manage to get my kids on the right track without being too pushy with them. |
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