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What should I do about this...?This forum post has messages dated from 09/13/10 through 05/29/11, please be sure to read all the messages. If you feel it is old or outdated, please follow up with a question or comment and someone may be able to update it, or reply with newer information if you have it. - Out of Sorts
| What should I do about this...? A girl, Becca, moved to my town about 7 months ago and Crystal, this girl I don't like very much, and I were assigned to show her around. Becca became pretty good friends with Crystal, my other friend (Sage), my other other friend (Brianna), and me. So now Crystal hangs out with Becca NON-STOP. I love Becca, so I hang out with her, even if Crystal is there. My older sister (she hangs out with me and my friends, sometimes) and Sage are outright MEAN to Crystal, even when she's right there. I used to be able to get over Crystal being there, but I was talking to Becca earlier today after going out of town for the weekend, she said Crystal told Becca not to tell me that they hung out with these guys we're all friends with, because "I would get mad", which I so wouldn't. The guys that we're all friends with call us stalkers all the time (they're joking, sort of :P) and we all deny it. Except Crystal kind of is. She always texts them all the time annoys them at school in the halls. |
| Honestly, I didn't get what you mean. Like, the story was so long and there were so many names involved. I guess you are just overreacting about your friends and the way I understand it, maybe you are just jealous with your friends being friends with others. One thing I suggest is that, you just have to accept your friends. Eventually, they will find other friends aside from you and so are you. You just have to accept that and befriend them as well. |
| "Earn New Friends As Well "
I have to agree with that. You cannot stop your friend from finding another set of friends. There might be reasons why but you just have to accept that fact of life. You cannot just lock your friends up so they would not ever have to meet another potential friends. Instead of getting jealous over nonsense, go out with your friend's new found peers and enjoy each others company. Good day. |
| "People Would Search For New Friends No Matter What"
That is true. What is wrong with the people nowadays? Why are people getting more and more out of themselves and are jealous with some other people? If you really are friends with someone, you would not let such ill feelings get over you. Be confident of who you really are. Do not hate people just because your friend is into making them their new friends. Grow up and be reasonable. |
| I think this kind of situation is simply normal for young people because they aren't really certain who they're real friends are. But I think it would be better if you try to meet new friends as well though you have the closer ones. It is better to have more friends as you know. I would suggest you watch the movie "The Clique." Perhaps you can relate to this. |
| Friendship is really something that worth keeping for. But you should also face the fact that people engage with many people every now and then. It's just normal for you and your friends to meet new faces and enjoy their company. It's also a good thing to open your hands to new people. True friends are surely there for you no matter what happen so there's nothing to worry about. |
| "The More The Merrier "
That is true. True friends would never leave each other. Especially those who had established long and good friendly relationships. It is sad to hear stories of broken friendly relationships just because of misunderstandings, jealousy and some other reasons. Like me, I have my old set of friends and I still keep them. But I a still go out, meeting new people and gaining new friends. And I make sure that I make my old friends be close with my new friends as well. |
| "Before Everything Else"
If you are a true friend then you will allow your friend to meet new set of friends. Good friends can greatly help the maturity of a person who also can be a source of support in any means (financial, spiritual, psychological and emotional). The more real friends one has, the merrier and the more better person he can be. So if people starts ruining a long established relationship, think first of your current situation. Before those new people who came into your life who makes it to a point to destroy your relationship with previous friends, we should all think that before we are husbands, wives, father, mothers, grandfathers, etc, we are first friends to each other. |
| "Life Without Friends "
It is really hard to be in a situation of both set of friends fighting for whatever reasons. I think it is important that we do keep friends no matter how hard or tough situations might be. Misunderstandings will always be there but as long as the friendship is true then surely, everything would be fine in the end. And nothing beats having more and more friends because life would be boring and dull without them. |
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