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A Much Needed ResponseThis forum post has messages dated from 09/12/11 through 10/24/11, please be sure to read all the messages. If you feel it is old or outdated, please follow up with a question or comment and someone may be able to update it, or reply with newer information if you have it. - Some Business
| A Much Needed Response I can't help but to sometimes feel irritated at people in my network. I am talking about social networks... from friends, peers to colleagues. What I am pissed about with people s when you have some concerns that you want a direct answer from them but they won't even say a word. The worst part about it is hat you see them online and they don't even respond back. What adds up to the irritation is that they can still reply later if they are still busy at the moment I messaged (chat) them, but they still won't. |
| "Much Of A Demanding Type? "
Most of the time we tend to become really demanding for time and space from our friends and from those people whom we did established relationship with. But hey, just like us, they do not owe us anything at all for us to be that demanding towards them. Like me, if I feel like messaging someone, I'll certainly do it. But I am not expecting from them that much. The same way that I am not expecting them to be that demanding over me. |
| "The business with people"
I can understand Larry's conflict here as I too have experienced such cold treatment from colleagues and friends. Although I have to agree with what Eula said that they don't owe you anything at all, it is still advisable to respond to inquiries if it is of great importance. Let's give extreme conditions like you are at the verge of emotional break down and you wanted someone to just help you through it but none of your so called friends even messaged back, even if they are online. That would just adds up to the misery and don't want to think what would happen next.Then there is the issue with asking for information related to business and work. We should all be professionals whether an employee or a boss and have an open communication with one another. |
| "Do Not Expect So Much "
Well, I do have people in my network who finds it hard to even respond to my messages, even if I know that they are always checking on their respective accounts. And yes, it is so hard to accept that even your friends finds it hard to even respond back on the times you knew he or she is not busy at all. So I think in this case, we always have to secure our emotions for us to never feel sorry. |
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