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What is it with girls rushing to settle down?This forum post has messages dated from 06/06/11 through 10/09/11, please be sure to read all the messages. If you feel it is old or outdated, please follow up with a question or comment and someone may be able to update it, or reply with newer information if you have it. - The World
| What is it with girls rushing to settle down? A friend recently told me that he is currently being pressured by his long time girlfriend to tie the knot. I am in favor of this and they have been in love for quite some time now but I also understand my friend. I understand that he wanted to have a a house to put his family on, a more sustainable job, a savings to start a family. I really don't know what is it with women rushing things like marriage. These are very sensitive matters and should be carefully planned out. |
| "Reasons Why"
You only heard your friend's side, but how about the girl's side? I am not in the position to say this but I hope I am not offending anyone. There are some reasons why girls tend to rush things out, like marriage. What if that girl is pregnant? Or what if your friend promised marriage already? And besides, your friend should be talking that sensitive matter with her girlfriend. Hope things would be fine for your friend though. |
| "Self-Pressure"
I believe that your friend is pressuring herself to be in the looped. I can imagine most of your friends or hers to be getting married while they (who have been together for so long) haven't even thought about it. Wished you've asked your friend if he talked or opened about this marriage stuff with his girlfriend. I think it is better if they both talk it out and explain each other's side. |
| "Don't rush things"
I too know friends who are in the same situation. The girl already wants them to settle down, and although I agree that it is all that is left for hem to do, I don't think that it is the time to do that. There are factors to consider before starting a family, it is never advisable to go into early marriage when you know that you aren't prepared (mentally, physically, emotionally and financially). My friend is still saving up money for their future, for in the end, it is better to have a happy family than an early one with tons of issues like finance, etc. |
| "Issues In Getting Married "
There really are lots of considerations that each couple should look at before tying the knot. It is not easy to be married and take the responsibility as a parent, most especially nowadays. It takes lots of investing for every couple to do, financially, emotionally, mentally and of course spiritually. But no one can ever tell when would be the right time to get married. For me, as long as the couple are ready to face life together, considering the factors you guys mentioned here, then there would never be any problem with getting married. |
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