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My 11 year old step son is ruining my relationship?

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Gilma

Easton, Maine

My 11 year old step son is ruining my relationship?

I am so at my wits end-I have a one year old at home and I am 32 weeks pregnant with our second child together. My fiancee has had custody of his son since his son was 2 years old. When I came in to the picture, his son was 7. The first couple years of our relationship, I bent over backwards and treated his child no different from my own. This child has always been very bratty and spoiled acting, and is an expert at manipulating my fiancee in order to get his own way. What is totally annoying is the fact that he will walk in and out of my home and anyone else's without saying hello or goodbye, which I think is so so disrespectful. My most pressing issue though is this: This past November, my step son decided that he wanted to go live with his mother (who simply just purchases him anything he wants) and while on a visit with her accused my fiance and myself, his paternal grandmother and paternal grandfather (who has since passed from Cancer and was very ill at the time) of physical and emotional abuse. I was devastated that I had to go through this and even though there were no indications of any type of abuse, we all had to go through this investigation for a period of three months which involved them coming to our home, questioning my other children, notifying my ex that I was under investigation as well as contacing my childrens physicians and family members to question them. Although the case has since dissolved as we were all unfounded, I am still livid. I guess I am not quite sure how I want my fiancee to handle the situation but I do not think it is right that he now is basically rewarding him for his actions (and probably an attempt not to tick him off so he doesn't do it again). I don't want to live with this child and I don't want to be even in the same room as he is and now my children are the ones that have to suffer because of this child's actions. My fiancee's resolution now is to venture off and get his own apartment with his son, leaving myself 32 weeks preggo and with

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