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Ughh, im SOO stupid!!! :(?This forum post has messages dated from 09/10/10 through 06/11/11, please be sure to read all the messages. If you feel it is old or outdated, please follow up with a question or comment and someone may be able to update it, or reply with newer information if you have it. - Ticked Off
| Ughh, im SOO stupid!!! :(? Ok, so i like this guy (read this if you want to know why i think he likes me: http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index;_ylt=Ai9.gt3khyxXi5qPBH_vXKXsy6IX;_ylv=3?qid=20100906114352AA777Vh) and i REALLY like him. If you read that you know that we walk back from lunch together, and back from our last class. Well, usually he was the one who would walk up to me and talk. (he is shy, im SUPER shy around guys i like. I will definatley talk and carry on a convo with them if they bring it up. But i can never say anything first cause i completely shut down.) Well today i was going to walk up to him and start talking. And i didnt. He was RIGHT in front of me. I could have touched him easily, but i just couldnt do it. I was getting mad at myself for not doing it, but i couldnt just poke him and say "hey" and it really ticks me off.. cause what if he starts to loose interest cause he doesnt think i like him? How can i stop being to shy around him? the only time i am is right after our last class together, and it annoys me! |
| "Message Him Instead "
It is normal for girls to feel that way. It is not easy to approach a guy especially if you like him. But do not despair yet my friend. There are still some ways that you can tell him how you really feel. Why not send him a cute little letter. A simple message would be great and might get the two of you in the path of being in a relationship. |
| "How young are you anyway?"
This is quite normal if you ask me. We girls are like this when we are young. So let me ask you how young are you? Why have you taken it to yourself to first approach him. Sure he is the shy type and you are interested with him, does that mean that you should engage him because of that? What's with kids and such aggressive attitude nowadays? |
| "Befriend Him Instead "
I see nothing wrong if you would first try to be friends with him. Do not rush things out between you and him. You have all the time in the world to enjoy and who knows what will happen? For the meantime, try to just be friends with him and see what will happen. Try to get to know him more further, you would never know if he is indeed nice unless you got the chance to be friends with him. |
| Hi there! I think, it is a normal feeling when people get shy when they are with the person they really like. I think it is a defend mechanism. I have been on that feeling before and it is natural, don't worry, with regards to your problem, I think, you should talk to him, bravely. Thank you so much to all of you guys and have a great day to all! |
| "Sending The Message Of Love "
It is not easy to relay a message to anyone, telling them that you like them. But you know what, I also have the same experience. I have to agree, it is much better trying to be friends with the person you like. This way, you can get closer to him and at the same time, try to send the message of love by your action. Good luck on that though. |
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