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Was I rude????????????????????This forum post has messages dated from 09/03/10 through 04/27/11, please be sure to read all the messages. If you feel it is old or outdated, please follow up with a question or comment and someone may be able to update it, or reply with newer information if you have it. - Your Clients
| Was I rude???????????????????? There is this one person who works at the same bank as I do. She is a loan officer, and only works at this particular branch occasionally. Any time she comes in, she always talks too loud. For example, she walks in and talks on her cell and goes to the lunch room where I am having my lunch and watching TV, and she can outscream the Marylin Millian show :))). It kind of bothers me, because it's as though she thinks its a high school locker room. And to me its ghetto to be talking on the phone that loud, letting everyone know your business (not to mention, when she works with a client the whole branch has to listen to her talk, or giggle or whatever). So, I told her to tune in down a bit (when I was at the lunch). And she got upset. So I got upset and told her I can't hear my own thoughts any time she comes over to the branch. And now she is mad at me. But, don't you think its annoying when people do this? Lets say you're on the train and someone talks on the phone so lound you could almost write a book about his life??? |
| No you are not rude. I think it is good for you to actually tell her how annoying she was. I bet that it is not only you who are experiencing that kind of annoyance over her and it is so brave of you to tell her to turn her volume down. I myself could have done the same thing that you did. But of course we should also consider their feelings so it is much better if we tell them in a nice way. |
| "Too Loud People Are Irritating "
Well as long as you address your concerns in a good manner then there is nothing wrong with that. I cannot imagine how loud that person could be. I hate people who would shout their mouth out even in a small talks. It irritates the very little hairs in my ears. But well, we have different views about this matter though. Some might agree with me and some might not. |
| You did the right thing. At least she knew what she did was not acceptable because it disturbed some people. Just make sure that you did it in a nice way. Well, if she reacted in a rude way, I think it is just normal and the fact that you really don't know her temper that much. I think deep inside her she also learned a lesson so just do your part well. |
| "Try To Tone Down A Bit "
It is actually not good to be mean to anyone just because you do not want the way they talk or the way they behave. But believe me, it is really irritating to be with people who are too loud and too vulgar with their words and action. Yeah, you have a good point with that advice Gladys. Try to tone down if you can see people getting annoyed with you. Especially if you are not in the comfort of your home. |
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