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Clingy, creepy coworker won't stop bothering me!

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Justine

Clingy, creepy coworker won't stop bothering me!

There is a man who works in a completely different division than men who just won't take a hint and stop bothering me. I am in my 20s and married (which he knows) and he is in his 50s and also married. I met him when he came by to help my office with a project, which I worked on with other people in my team. At first, he was professional and normal. Then, after the project ended, he kept coming by just to "say hello" to me. I thought that was a little odd because I certainly never indicated that I wanted to be friends but I remained courteous (and professional). Then he kept coming by more and more. Now, he comes by 3 to 4 times a week to blab to me about his personal life and to ask me to "hang out" after work! I ALWAYS turn him down. I decided a while ago that I did not want him to visit anymore because he makes me uncomfortable and has no more reasons to be in my office. So, I tried being polite and said that I have too much to do and cannot chat. I then tried just plain being rude and would get up and walk away as he was talking but he would just come back. I even tried ignoring him completely as he spoke but he kept going. The last time he was in my office, I got up to leave and he stood in my doorway blocking me.

I had to physically push him aside to get away! Does anyone have any tips or ideas I could use to get rid of this guy? He doesn't seem able (or willing?) to focus on his job and not bother me.

Fiona

The Swamp

"Put Him To His Right Place "

He is a real pain in the a**. It would be best if you try to get away from him. Talk to him that you are not comfortable with him anymore and that he should stop what he is doing with you. If he still insisted then it is much better if you try to settle things with your bosses. I bet that he would not want to loose his job.

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