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Should You Give Your Kids Evertything That They Ask For? - Your Kids
| Should You Give Your Kids Evertything That They Ask For?Hi there guys. I am a new parent and is having a hard time deciding on some things along the way of my motherhood. My little son is so charming that whenever he said that he wants that and he wants this, I cannot help it but to give everything that he wants. Some say that it is not good to do so. But what can I do? Any advice? |
| That is so cute! I think every mother in the world would share your comment. Bringing kids up is not like raising pets. It is a serious affair. Human development, parallel to parenting, is a delicate thing that must produce, after a few years, a well balanced and anger-free human being. One of the main impulses humans have is desire and this is true of infants also, perhaps to a higher degree. Infants manipulate adults with the "I donīt love you" syndrome in cases where their desires are not met. Of course mothers give in. It is common to see kids throwing fits in stores when the mother denies stuff they want. Get yourself a good parenting book and make sure you read it. |
|  "Get Into Their Minds and Guide Them"
I also have the same problem with kids before. I have two sons who would always want things to be done according to their will. At time I let them do whatever they want. But as time goes by I imposed to them that it is not good to always go for what you want solely. They have to also hear out from those concerned people around them, including their parents. |
| "Afraid To Let My Child Go Out "
I have to go with what Rozelle have to say here. There is nothing more important that we can give our child than the joy of their childhood, love and education. I know it is hard to let go kids outside but we have to let them explore the world, meet friends and grow up. I myself have problems on how to let go of my child. I am afraid of the harsh world she might encounter. |
| "Monitoring Our Kids Company "
That is the sad part of being a parent. After you raised your child well, you are then to blame once they got a little stubborn when they grow up. I am not a spoiler mom, I try to always correct my kids even though it breaks my heart to see them sad with the rules at the house. There are outer influences whom might affect the way our kids change in behavior and attitude. And so we have to monitor as well those who tries to get close to our child. If they are good or a bad influence. |
| "If You Take Care Of Them Well, They Will Grow Good Children"
All of you in here have a good point. It is never easy to take care of kids and be a parent to them. But still, we should not think and get worried about those stuffs at all. As long as you know you are providing all the needs of your kids, and that includes love and care, they would surely grow up to be a strong and good children. |
| "Emotions vs. Firmness "
I have to agree with that. I used to have this set of rules in my mind before on how I should take care of my kids. But now that I already have my own family and my own daughter, it seemed that to discipline her is the toughest job that I ever had in my entire life. As a mother I have to weigh my emotions and my firmness on stuffs. It is never that easy at all. |
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