'How Does your Spouse Annoy You?' Your Spouse  

Barry (63.176.159.139) -

What is top 10 list of annoying spouse traits?

Comment #1 dustin michael from ohio -

how about always nagging you about where you've been.. or who your with? i hate the trust issues with some women. even if you give them no reason to think your in the wrong, some always still think you are. i just hate that .

Comment #2 Jack (63.176.159.244) -

Did you ever watch some soap operas.... where do you think they get the idea that life must be filled with do much drama.. and if there is none... that some has to be created!

Comment #3 Lark (63.176.159.99) -

Don't ever let your wife watch soap dramas causes those show are too dramatically influential for them. Women always believe what they see on TV and sometimes they apply it to reality. And although soap are often real life situations there's no way it will happen to a single individual.

Comment #4 dustin (63.176.159.230) -

i agree that women always believe stuff thats on tv. they think that if someone can be doing it on tv, that it could be happening to her or whatever.

Comment #5 Ruel (63.176.159.175) -

She annoys me in many ways. I think just a bit few more and I am going to left that nagging freak. It has been more than seven years and she's such a nagger, so doubtful, and whenever I speak what's on my mind she doesn't want to listen to me and she shouts at me irritated as if my voice is some annoying sound that bugs her ear every time I open my mouth. I am regretful I have married her.

Comment #6 Lisa (63.176.159.2) -

Maybe she mirrors your annoying ways back on you!

Comment #7 Portia (63.176.159.209) -

I hate when I say something sarcastically and my boyfriend gets really mad and starts being mean. Does this happen to anyone else?

Comment #8 steve (63.176.159.48) -

are you always being sarcastic with him? if so, maybe hes just annoyed by it. if not, you don't deserve it and go find better.

Comment #9 Gerard (63.176.159.124) -

This is slowly becoming a battle of the sexes, huh? Well i don't like it when she nags and gets jealous over nonsensical things. You can't really find an ideal woman who is loyal, understanding, and loving... well that only makes them human but couldn't we ask for them to at least try to be one? I don't like it also to be the dumping bag of their insecurities, why the hell did you became her man anyways to be a punching or receiver of her short commings?

Comment #10 William Nepumuceno (63.176.159.240) -

Women only nags when they see something's not right for them but sometimes (most of the times) they just want to get back at you and annoy you with their vocal exercises. Some women are also distrustful with their partners, they also have suspicions and they always think all of them is genuinely correct according to their "Women Intuition". What I do when the nagging begins is leaving for a few minutes and let my wife's head cool down and talk calmly to resolve our misunderstandings.

Comment #11 Geri (63.176.159.60) -

You guys are funny. I'm a women and I don't believe all things I see on the television. My husband nags me way more than I do to him. He gets so jealous if I leave to do errands and if he thinks it took longer than it should have he will flip out. I also hate it when I'm out doing something and if he texts my phone and it takes me more than 5 minutes to respond (even when driving)he gets really mad.

Comment #12 Renee (63.176.159.146) -

I hate that my husband CRAVES attention from everyone, especially other women. He likes to hear other women tell him he is hot, and he likes it if he gets a "second look" and he will do anything to get some sort of attention from any woman. I also hate that he is so lazy, and I know thats just a man thing. I work 40 hours a week, and so does he (he works nights, and I work days) but I'm left to do everything. I mean care for our 6 month daughter, wake up with during the night (on his days off) do the dishes, laundary, picking up, etc. and all he does is cook dinner, and take out the trash. Why do you men think your gods gift to women, and why the heck are you so lazy. Just sitting around all day watching television, and playing video games. UGH MAN!!!

Comment #13 Gringo (63.176.159.103) -

The top annoying things in my wife is her being so bossy and such a fl irt. I thought women like those only appears on those dirty videos shows and videos but this wife of mine is almost near that. One time I caught her fli rting with a man over the phone which infuriates me. I don't like sharing, and it was never my fe tish to have another man on my wife. I am a good provider, a husband and a father but somewhere along the way "She" lost her way.

Comment #14 RiR-cLE (89.211.151.170) -

I think the person do it cuz of the past history. They current actions are how they try dealing with demon from their past.

Comment #15 Marvin Speilber (63.176.159.233) -

The trait that I don't really want from my girlfriend is caring too much. She cares too much on everything. Often times, whenever she would know that I'm still out late at night. My phone will be bombarded by phone calls and text messages. And the other thing is she always suspect me of cheating on her which is not true cause I would never do that to her ever.

Comment #16 Kira (63.176.159.3) -

Why it seems to me that Marvin Speilber, Gerard and Lark are having the same problem towards their wives.. I pity your wives guys, I just wish that they will not move away from you. You seem to push them away. If I were you I would change my attitude towards them.. They are your wives, Do not make them as the center of talks here in this forum. Please..

Comment #17 Eddie from Misoula -

Well, this topic is about "how does your spouse annoy you"!

hahaha... so if you are not annoyed by your spouse, bud out!

Comment #18 cwemoy (63.176.159.8) -

If some women claim that they do not believe what happens in the soap operas, why will they always be ready and seated by the time a soap opera is just about to start? It is not bad to love them, just learn to leave the ideas you might pick in the process right inside the television sets.

Annoying habits are varied so I doubt if there would be anything like the 'Top Ten Nagging Habits' unless Larry King hosts a show and invites quite a number of men.

Comment #19 Ariel nant (63.176.159.11) -

Eddie has a point there as well if you don't have any problems with your spouse then this forum is not for you. Don't generalized every spouse as like your spouse because most of the times they can really get into one's nerves. I can testify this as I am a victim of a non-stop nagging of my wife everytime i come home late from overtime and nope I am not with another woman. Thank you.

Comment #20 Natascha (63.176.159.157) -

Well I think that you should not let your relationship get to that point. If you are with another person for a long time, automatically respect for each other gets lower and words get nastier. Of course anybody close to you all the time will annoy you in some way.

My advice: try to accept your spouse the way he/she is. Don't react to nagging. Respect her/him. Be the wise one. React with love and understanding, don't let yourself be provoked. You'll see, things will change for the better.

Comment #21 Kira (63.176.159.166) -

Wow Natascha, you certainly got all the sense in this forum. I agree with your post 100%. Way to go buddy. Eddie are you annoyed with your wife? Why? If you are then how shameful is that. Have you ever wondered how she would react and feel when she managed to read your post?

I am also married and I am wishing that my husband would not be annoyed with me.

Comment #22 Anbert (63.176.159.162) -

What happened to the vow, for richer or for poorer, in sickness and in health, and til death do you part when with just merely that first challenge you are complaining about your wife? why not talk about it first? Even though you are already married, it doesn't mean your individual growth should be stopped. You both should still grow spiritually, psychologically and emotionally. That is the true measure of your love towards each other.

Comment #23 moy (63.176.159.104) -

Apparently, vows are always meaningless, unless both parties strive to make things work. Marriage is so much of a commitment.

That is sound advice Natascha, we should never let our relationships reach the point where it is so hard to chart the way forward.

However, it is not easy to brush off a nagging behavior..just try to nicely let the other party that you are not comfortable with certain things they do.

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