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I'm scared to talk to people. What should I do?This forum post has messages dated from 06/28/10 through 10/24/11, please be sure to read all the messages. If you feel it is old or outdated, please follow up with a question or comment and someone may be able to update it, or reply with newer information if you have it. - Your Teenagers
| I'm scared to talk to people. What should I do? I feel like people are like time bombs. When they like you, they make annoying, stupid jokes constantly (and laugh at their own jokes). It only takes a second to set them off. If you ask them one question more than they like, they'll call you a dumba**. If you ask them a question for which the answer is obvious to them, but not to you (for various reasons), they'll call you a retard and never talk to you again. If you tell somebody a joke that he or she doesn't think is funny, they'll call you a retard. People exaggerate like crazy about everything you do wrong. If you have one speck of dandruff in your hair, people will say that you have TONS of dandruff in your hair. I've figured out that a lot of people, especially teenagers, always try to gang up on you and make the first offensive remark if they feel any tension between you. That way you look like an idiot when you think of comebacks. A lot of teenagers make fun of people every day because they always try to talk about something funny. I'm very intelligent. I got a 1220 on my SAT, and I got into FSU. I'm sick of people calling me stupid. Sometimes I'll just make minor social blunders because I'm a human being, but 99% of the time it isn't my fault. For instance, I responded to a job posting on craigslist today, and this Chinese lady who basically couldn't speak English tried to tell me the address of her restaurant. I couldn't understand her, so she acted like it was my fault and got really mad at me. I called my manager for this other job that I have as a canvasser to tell him that my employer wouldn't tell me when and where I would be going door-to-door to set up appointments with people. He called her, and she got mad and said they were thinking about calling the cops on me. So I called the cops on her. I'm extremely vengeful, and I have a very hard time managing my anger. Can someone please tell me what to do? |
| "Normal To People "
Gilma, the things that you are saying here are pure normal to many people. Do not be scared to them, for you will have to face the same group of people everyday of your life. You have to be really good in dealing with them. That way you are sure to be free from all of the worries, of people making fun out of you or somebody else as well. |
| I would say that, yes teenagers can be a bit difficult to converse normally with because of the varying levels of maturity which they have. Even the mature ones are often pulled into immature behavior because of their peers. I believe that with teenagers you have to ignore a lot of the comments and mind games which they attempt to play on you for power trips, and just try to see the person inside. Talk to that person. |
| I understand your situation. I was in the same situation before and I know that it is not really good if we keep on hiding ourselves and be shy all the time. Remember that we are social beings and we all need to interact with other people. Hence, you should reach out other people and show them that you can be friend to them. It's part of growing up. |
| "We Need People, We Need Friends "
I have met some people whom are not that comfortable with being friends with so much people. But this is the very first time that I encounter one that is really afraid of socializing. You know what, you need to get out of your comfort zone. Do the things that you like doing and explore on the things that you like to do. Life would surely be boring without people to hang out with. |
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